I’ve made three major mistakes in the last 2 years. One harmless, one intentional, and one naively. The harmless one was an act that was trivial to begin with. One that most of my peers have done. It began with friendship. Ended with bitterness.

The intentional mistake was one that was a youngsters foolery. Knew going in it was foolishness. Didn’t know it’d evade my grasp so easily. In hindsight, I never would’ve done it. Not my style.

Naively, I made a mistake that so many do. It never seems like one initially. And it was so innocent. But my inexperience was my downfall. And I was left with the consequences of a situation that was way beyond me. Messy. In a normal environment, it wouldn’t have gotten so out of hand. But what’s the definition of normal? Oh yea.

If I had a time piece, just one time I’d go back to the innocent mistake. And remembering my lessons, never make that one. For that affected the others, and my nativity affected my judgment. But you know what they say, you live and you learn. Regardless of immaturity and stunted growth within ones environment, it is imperative that the ‘good fight’ and those lessons that were so painfully gained are never forgotten. It’s easy during the rain, but don’t let the sun blind you…

Not all were life changing or bad. But no matter what you do, your decisions will change you and change the environment around you. There are people who have “gotten away” with their mistakes or intentional acts of malice….once again, your decisions shape your environment. Even if no one else does, you do. And believe it or not, lies accelerate the process. And there’s another saying that’s also very true: What’s Goes Around Comes Around.

Don’t ever forget that. We all make mistakes, some worse than others, but some things aren’t worth the scorn. And some people deserve redemption.

The judgment is for both the judged and the person judging..

“Karma’s a Big Wench with an Excellent Memory”

baddominicana:

so that phone call, the one w trayvon martin screaming about to be gunned down by a white man, w a calm as fuck white operator….

is the picture of fucking white sociopathy. when a black boys blood curdling screams and humanity mean absolutely nothing.

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I used to be so stressed, listen hard for it but lately I’ve started to give a fuck less…bc quite honestly, certain things shouldn’t require a battle

#i mean really truth it just is

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zorascreation:

Being a PoC does not stop you from engaging in or being complicit with White Supremacy. You can have White Thoughts just like any other White Supremacist out there. Learn this! 

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the bad dominicana: also, my hispanic co-workers saying how "las negras" are always on the phone ›

volviomarilia:

or on the internet doing nothing, because you know…. black people are lazy.

but please tell me why they’re the ones that finish the patients’ charts faster?

me and my other black co-workers actually get more charts than anybody else, and excluding myself, they all get the…

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meleahmarie:

I am trying so hard.. I really am, but for some reason the way I feel overrules everything else. I can’t understand it. Why does this keep happening to me? Am I the one with the problem? Do I care too much? Don’t worry, I won’t say anything to make you uncomfortable. I won’t stir up any strife. My tears are silent.

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Sometimes I feel alone in my own little island and I only have a select few that can truly hold me down. Trust is like a net that one throws out but its the worst thing when it returns empty. Its been empty and its been full. But sometimes I dont even try to cast it at all….seems safer when only the wind is your friend. 

I dont know but yet I know it all. I cannot detach myself from the realities of this space. I will be who I am. And thats strength. but sometimes, just sometimes, I want to be weak. And be taken care of as I take care of thee….

Sometimes people think they are doing something in your best interest when in actuality they are causing you more harm than anything else. If only they would be kind and then maybe, just maybe, they’d get a lot further and be seen for more than what their bitterness allows….

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